What do they think of me? A tarot reading that looks at both sides

Choose who it’s about, tell the story in your own words, and draw 6 cards. The reading puts your view next to what the cards suggest about theirs.

Who do you want to understand?

Six cards, two points of view

People often come to a “what do they think of me” tarot reading in the in-between moments. A crush who replies in minutes one day and in hours the next. An ex who still watches your stories. A partner who has gone quiet. This page uses the 6-card Relationship Mirror Spread for exactly those moments. Three cards look at your side of the connection and three look at theirs. The aim isn’t to read anyone’s mind. It’s to see the whole picture, your part included, so your next step feels clearer.

An AI tarot reader writes the reading around your question, each position and the cards you drew, reversed cards included. It treats the cards as perspective: the mood between you, patterns worth noticing, and what might help. It won’t claim to know exactly what someone thinks, and it can’t make choices for them. What it can do is help you slow down, name what you already sense, and decide what you want to do next, whether that’s reaching out, waiting, or letting go.

What the 6 cards show

The first three cards are about you and the last three are about them, so you can read the two sides next to each other.

Relationship Mirror Spread

1Your thoughts about them
2How you see this relationship
3What you expect from the future
4Their thoughts about you
5How they see this relationship
6What they expect from the future

Questions you can ask

We’ve texted every day for a month. Do they see me as more than a friend?
He’s been distant since our trip. How does he feel about me now?
My ex still likes my posts. How does she see what happened between us?
My partner seems far away lately. What do they hope for with us?
Should I tell them how I feel, or give it more time?

How it works

Choose who it’s about

Pick Crush, Ex or Partner, then describe what’s going on and what you want to know. A few honest details help more than a perfect question.

Draw 6 cards

Use Online draw to tap and draw, Flip cards to turn them over, or Choose from deck to pick your own from all 78 cards. Reversed cards count too.

Read, then follow up

Your reading covers your question and each position. Sign in to save it to your history and ask a follow-up about the same cards. The first follow-up on each reading is free.

Tips for reading your cards

Read the two sides together

Put “Your thoughts about them” next to “Their thoughts about you”, then do the same with the other pairs. Where the two sides differ is often where a real conversation is needed.

Treat their cards as a possibility

The cards on their side offer perspective, not a transcript of anyone’s mind. Keep what rings true, compare it with how they actually act, and let real conversations have the final say.

Ask once, then give it time

Asking the same thing again and again in a short time usually adds noise, not clarity. Give it a few days, or ask a follow-up about the same cards instead.

Common questions

Is this tarot reading free?

Yes. You get one free question a day, with no sign-up needed. That daily question is shared across the site: the main AI tarot reading, yes or no tarot, spreads and love spreads. After that, you can sign in. New members get welcome credits, and further readings use credits.

Can a “what do they think of me” tarot reading really tell what they feel?

Not as fact. No one can see inside another person’s mind, and the cards can’t replace a real conversation. What the reading offers is perspective: the dynamic between you, patterns you may have missed, and what the cards suggest about where they stand. Use it to reflect, then pay attention to how they actually show up.

How should I phrase my question?

Keep it to one person and one situation, and add the context that matters: how long you’ve known each other, what changed, and what you’re hoping for. Open questions such as “How do they see our connection right now?” lead to richer readings than a flat yes or no.

What if I get bad or reversed cards?

A hard or reversed card isn’t a verdict. It often points to hesitation, mixed signals or timing, and that’s useful to know. The reading explains what the card may mean in its position. People and circumstances change, and so can the picture.

How often can I ask?

You can come back any day, but try not to ask the same question over and over in a short time. Repeating it tends to blur the picture. Give it a few days, or sign in and ask a follow-up about the same cards. The first follow-up on each reading is free.

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